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Saturday, 21 July 2018

I find it almost laughable how girls are STILL shamed for having casual sex, or one night stands, but guys are seen as lads, and applauded? 

It makes me so angry, it's so unfair, not all women value sex the same as each other. 

It's okay if you want to wait for the right person, if you want to wait until marriage, if you want to do porn, if you want one night stands every week, it's YOUR body, so YOUR choice and no-one has the right to judge you on what you do. 

I've been ill, so you know what happens, you end up watching TV shows you wouldn't normally. So I've been watching an old season of Love Island, and my god, girls are judgemental. 'That's slaggy to sleep with someone on the first date' alright, shut up Olivia. 

Miss GB lost her crown for having sex, sorry what year is this? ... That is a role model in my eyes. GirlS have urges as well as men, and why the hell can't they give in to them?

I honestly want a proper answer to this is someone can answer it. I think those pagant ass wipes should be shamed for that. How can you be like that in this day and age? Shall all us women just stay at home an cook? It's pathetic.

What do you think?

Women do enjoy having sex,I don't know why people can't grasp that. It doesn't matter how many people you have been with, it doesn't change you as a person so people shouldn't care about it so much. Just enjoy your life!!

Thanks for reading,
Sophie x

There's nothing wrong with not loving yourself yet

Saturday, 14 July 2018

I find each social media has their own little niche/view on peoples appearance, their health and their overall view on how we 'should be'. 

Let me explain what I mean.

When I'm on Instagram I see post after post of people at the gym, pushing their bodies and trying to better themselves, whether that's for their appearance, their health, or mental health. There's a huge community of positive people just helping others and making you think how important your health is.

You want to live a long healthy life right? Instagram the place is for you.

It's not based on you looking like an 'Instagram model' it gets you away from that stereo type, it's more the idea of working on yourself, and being you. One girl I find so inspiring is Carys, she loves her huge muscular legs (as do I) she gets so much 'hate', but she spreads the message to love your self, and just be you.

If you jump over to Twitter there's a even bigger community of 'body positive' girls, which is great, there's so much support for people just being themselves, and loving your body as it. One person who is really inspiring is Grace we all know her, she just spreads a huge message that you don't need to be anyone but yourself,.

All of this is great, but it's hard when you don't fit in to either group. I mean I'm trying to better myself, but currently I feel shit in my body, I have excess fat which I don't want, but I saw Leah, from Devoted Pink say on Twitter that sometimes she doesn't feel confident in her body, and doesn't like feeling like that and my god, she got slammed. 

You're allowed to not feel comfortable in yourself. It's gone full circle, from larger girls being seen a 'undesirable' which is the media just being a ridiculous, to now you can't voice your opinions are not wanting to be over weight, or unhealthy which is stupid, because you are allowed to want to be bigger, smaller, healthier, taller, shorter.. all the rest!

It can be hard when you feel like everyone but you loves themselves, but trust me, it isn't just you. Loving yourself is a journey, it's a long one. Regardless of what you look like, I just try not to compare myself to anyone else, and stick to my own journey.

If you ever feel like you want to talk, but you don't fit in, feel free to pop me a message! 

Thanks for reading, 
Sophie x

What anxiety is really like to live

Tuesday, 3 July 2018

It does infuriate me when I hear people say that a lot of peoples' anxiety stems from not playing out side as kid, so they're 'nervous' in social situations. No sweet, that ain't true.

Anxiety is becoming an openly talked about subject, it's always been 'out there' however as a society we are all opening up and talking about our problems / feelings a lot more, which is great! 


It does infuriate me when I hear people say that a lot of peoples' anxiety stems from not playing out side as kid, so they're 'nervous' in social situations. No sweet, that ain't true. I spent my childhood climbing trees and running around side, I'm still a tad loopy. I have also heard people insinuating that social anxiety could stem from social media, but for me personally it has zero input. I don't think it helps 

What's it's like to live with anxiety? I'll tell you. 

You wake up in the morning, your covers are soft around your body, your pillow is a dream, your boyfriend is led next to you... he's all warm, and soft but he goes in for a cuddle. You've just woken up, not quite with it yet, but he hooks his arm under your neck, and the other around your waist. He's spooning you, normally you'd think it's cute, warm, cosy or loving? Yet you feel trapped, you can't breath from his arm by your neck. The arm around your waist is like a restraint, you just want him to let go. You love him, you know he's never harm you or anything like that but you just feel trapped and panicked.

The only way out of this for me is to sit up bolt-right, my boyfriend mocks me because I do it in my sleep and he finds it annoying, but it's the only way out. Give me time and I'll come in to a cuddle, but when I'm surprised or I feel 'dragged in', my mind goes to shit. I can't handle it. Who'd have thought a cuddle was an issue?

Being cuddled is just one of the small things. When we do the cleaning my boyfriend will put on music, but he has his so loud, I hate it. It just hits me in the chest, the sound feels like it traps my ears, you can't get away from it, you can't hear yourself talk. When I go out to a club (It's been a while now) I can go for an hour or so then I just have to go outside, I find it so hard to explain but it's like the loud sounds smother my ears, and mind? Anxiety is bloody hard to actually talk / write about because it's a lot of feelings that not all of you will understand. 

Going out is something I find hard. I gave up on nights out, I felt uncomfortable and I'd rather be at home, or out for a meal instead. It's just going out-out that's hard. When I'm home on my own I will not leave the house. I hate it. I used to go clothes shopping on my own, to town, out for coffee, but now it's like I'm in a different world. If Ibs will come with me I have no worry in the world, or if I'm going somewhere to meet a friend I'm fine, but on my own I get so worked up.

But look at me now!!

I've going to the gym on my own, I nip down to Morrisons.. and I finally properly, enjoy a good night out again. 

All of this has only really come on within the last year or so, but I've kind of got it at bay, so I feel like I can talk about it, finally.  

Thanks for reading, 

Oh, hello.

Sunday, 1 July 2018


I wanted to write a 'Welcome back' post but it's been so long I don't even know if anyone would still read my blog. 

But heyyy, I'm back.

It's been a short while since I've posted on here! 

I've seriously missed blogging, so I'm ready to pour my heart and soul in to this, but you know what, writing is such a passion of mine that I've felt a little lost without it. Plus, who isn't inspired when the sun in shining?

Those dark week nights don't really help with the photography side does it? 

I've had a blog since I was 15 so taking a ... nearly a year?! off blogging was weird. I didn't realise it was that long, until now. I've started watching a lot more TV, but I've read so many more books, it's been nice but I kind of feel like I don't have a purpose? 

I've loved sitting down with my note book, planning posts, and thinking of how to take photos..that's something I might have to re-learn.

This post kind of just to say, Hey! I'm back so stay tuned for some more posts from me. 

I also am on Instagram.. you can find me HERE are the top of the page, and the right hand side there's little Instagram Icons.. if you prefer the picture side of things.

Thanks for reading!
Love, Sophie